You can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed.
This is a really tough message but I had to share it. Don't fall in love too fast, because the truth is when you fall in love too fast, it's not love. Let me explain, nothing good in our lives ever comes from falling.
They say love is blind because the only time we fall is when we're blinded. When you fall in love too fast you think you know their dreams, but you just know their plans. You think you know their heart, but you just know their mind. You think you know their past, but you just know parts.
Let the right person show you that they're the right person. Don't just give away your trust, let someone earn it. I know what it's like, it feels amazing to fall for someone quickly, that adrenaline rush. But why would you want to fall for someone that you don't know, is going to be there to catch you?
We don't just find a huge tree with beautiful fruits and flowers overnight. It takes time. No matter how much you water it, it takes time. No tree overnight has the most beautiful flowers and fruits. And so neither can a relationship. It takes time. Because remember, you can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed.
And on the flip side, don't make someone fall in love with you, if you don't know how to love them or if you don't love them back. Don't give someone enough reasons to love you if you don't feel in the same way for them. Because guess what - they won't end up questioning you, they end up questioning love.
And I'm trying to say this for your own benefit. I want you to have incredible, meaningful, purposeful relationships, but I want them to be real, I want them to be genuine. Because being in love isn't a mood, it's a commitment even after your mood changes.
@ Inspired By : jay shetty
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