For a person to go from victim to thriver one must forgive. You must abort he hate that resides in your soul to become everything you desire to be free.
Viktor Frankl, wrote. " Love goes very far beyond the physical person of the beloved. It finds its deepest meaning in his spiritual being, his inner self."
To obtain that purest love he so eloquently describes one must abort hate first in themselves and abort it when wrong happens to them.
Hate cripples the legs of love leaving only the soul of a parasite. One cannot love you to force love, love must already be there I some form.
Aborting hate is hard but is necessary to birth love. Real love.
Holocaust survivors had every reason to not live on, thrive forward as it were. The, solution to the world is to abort hate at all costs and let love only gained by self-sacrifice flourish mightily. Making it stronger than the atomic bomb itself.
Let the abortion of hate begin by looking at the cross daily and living so cancerous hate has no capacity to flourish.